As I said before, I'm single, but do not want to stay that way
I think part of finding a companion is having an idea of what you
want, but being able to find happiness with someone who is not the
embodiment of perfection.
What do I think my companion I'd want to take home to Mommy might be like?
He would be someone whom I find attractive, enjoy being
with, can fall in love with, and feel like I'm a better person by
being with him, which includes being able to enhance his life as well.
I can think of several important categories of compatibility to consider.
Someone I get along with and have fun with and laugh with and can talk
to on a meaningful as well as superficial level (noone wants to be
serious all the time). Someone
who enjoys my company as well. He should be patient, caring, and
considerate, and being with him I'd find myself being more patient,
caring, and considerate.
Someone who has flaws, but is challenged to improve himself.
Sees people more valuable than things. Treats people
with respect and
dignity. Sees being honest as very important, but being caring not
to hurt people by being too brutally honest. Sees our relationship
as extreamly important, and
does not take it for granted. Cares about investing himself into the
relationship and allows and enables me to do the same.
Someone who is in good physical shape who I can find attractive.
This does not mean he is necessarily an Undergear(TM)
model, but someone whom
I find attractive and am excited to be with. This most likely means he
cares about the way he looks and does a pretty good job of taking care
of himself, does
not smoke, enjoys being physically fit and active, is around my age,
and is reasonably well endowed. On the one hand the motion of the ocean is
more important than the size of the ship, but on the other hand it is
hard to make big waves with a little boat.
Someone who loves to have sex and cannot get enough, loves to try
new things and knows how to be creative.
Primariliy a pitcher, but also enjoys catching occasionally when I
feel like hopping onto the mound (if that makes you think about
baseball, you are probably not Mr. Right). Someone who knows how to
agressive and dominant but also knows how to be passionate and loving,
perhaps all at the same time. Is not turned off by a little pain, or
by dispensing a little.
Someone who loves to try new things in bed and out, including traveling
to new places, trying new foods. Does not think it is a waste if he
tries something new and does not like it.
But can learn to like some new things to increase our compatibility. That
does not mean change who he is, only that he feels good about
expanding his interestes to accomodate mine. I enjoy expanding my
interests and limits as well for someone I care about.
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